When first touring an assisted living community, it is very important to receive a copy of the activities calendar. Most seniors who are transitioning to assisted living have been very active in their communities prior to the transition.
It is very important that they continue to be active and feel a part of their community. Here are some recommendations to make that more likely.
Meet the Activity Director
Ask to meet with the activity director. Let the activity director know what kind of activities your loved one really enjoys. If those activities are not a part of their program, ask them how they can incorporate the things your loved one enjoys into the weekly routine.
Get Out of the Building
Make sure residents are taken out into the community for activities. Staying in on the assisted living grounds all the time is not an acceptable option. Ask your activities director if and how they are connected to the community. Many times during the transition period, residents prefer to remain isolated in their rooms. The activities director should be able to clearly articulate the ways he or she plans to help your loved one connect with other residents.
In my facility, I have a welcome committee made up of residents that greets a new resident immediately and will stay close to them during the transition. They will come get them for meals, activities, and just spend time connecting with them on a personal level. This has been very helpful in transitioning and integrated new residents into the “family.”
Physical, Cognitive and Emotional Stimulation
Ask your activity director how he or she plans to meet the physical, cognitive and emotional needs of your loved ones. If your loved one has a disability — physical, vision, hearing or dementia — ask the activity director how activities are adapted so that your loved one may participate.
Your loved one should never be left out because the activities cannot be adapted to their needs. This should be an important factor in your community selection process. Every activity in my program can be modified to meet the needs of every resident in our community.
I have a simple rule: If it can’t be adapted, we don’t do it.
Stay Connected with Long-Distance Families
Many families live far away from the community where their loved one resides. Ask the activity director how you can stay connected with them and how you stay informed about their participation in the activities program. I do this through pictures and emails. I send pictures of the residents participating in their activities to the families.
Activities for Individuals
I have several residents who prefer not to do physical activities or crafts. In their younger years they owned a store or did floral arranging, so I opened a General Store in our community. These residents take a great deal of pride in taking inventory and working as the cashier within our community. Ask your activity director if he or she is willing to add activities for individual residents to help them feel apart of their surroundings. The most important factor is that your loved ones have a purpose. They need to be stimulated every day — physically, cognitively and emotionally.
Communication is Key
The activity director should provide a “safe space” for your loved one to be able to come to talk, participate or just to come for a hug. Communication should be on a regular basis with the families, either by phone, email or mail. Follow up with your activity director to make sure your loved one is participating and not isolated.
A Successful Program is Obvious
A healthy program has a consistent flow of activities from morning until early evening. Healthy programs have a variety of choices. Families may even want to participate and join an activity with their loved one.
I have 8 activities a day with 50 participants at least at every one of them 7 days a week.
A successful activities program is often the best sign that the community is becoming their home. And residents that have grown together as a family ultimately enjoy the time they spend with each other.
About the Author: Terri Glimcher is a Contributing Writer at Inside Assisted Living and the Activity Director for Summerville at Oak Park Assisted Living, an Emeritus Senior Living property in Clermont, Florida.